Marami Na Ang Madamdamin

Parang naglalakad ka na ngayon sa sahig na puro itlog na kailangan mong magdahan-dahan at baka may mabasag kang pakiramdam.

We will talk about the current situation of the general public and their behavior circling emotionality in daily life.

Tutukuyin natin ang pinagmulan nito at pamamaraan na ginamit para maging natural ang panghahawa.

You will notice that profanity is more acceptable in every situation but tackling one’s feelings needs elaborate justifications.

Habang tumatagal ay lalong lumalala at ginagawang normal na mapapansin ng mga taong hindi ito kinagisnan.

There’s a chance you belong in this description and are being disturbed just by me explaining such an observation.

Kung gusto mo ng totoo, matutuwa kang mabasa ito.

One phrase given by one of my favorite authors is “We’re living now in an emotional society”.

Tinulak ako nitong isipin at mapansin ang mga nangyayaring galawan sa palagid ko.

It has some truth that I can’t deny because it speaks the words about the observation I had since before I encountered his works.

Nahimasmasan rin ako sa sarili kong panggagaya nito na hindi ko namamalayan dahil ‘yon ang nakikita ko.

This opens up the possibility of figuring out the root cause of every behavior and the motives of the people enacting it.

Kahit papaano, nasagot ang mga kaguluhan sa isip ko dati tungkol sa mga pangyayari kahit alam ko man o hindi.

The main benefit of accepting these occurrences is the clarity to navigate in life for a more reasonable path and control.

May dalawang daloy na pwedeng mangyari sa tuwing nahaharap sa isang sitwasyon.

The former is what we notice now adapted from the globalized civilization.

Damay-damay na galing sa mga napapanood, nababasa, o naririnig, lalo na gamit ang teknolohiyang meron tayo ngayon.

The scope of how this subtle influence developed to an end resulting in the formation of modernized norms.

Sa halip na isipin muna kung ano ang problema, inuuna kung ano ang mararamdaman sa katapat na aberya.

Effective medium?

Language through word choice and redefining what each means to suit the emotionality of everyone’s sensitivity.

Kaysa magkaintindihan, lalong naging sagabal ang mga natutunan dahil nahaluan na ng kanya-kanyang adhikaing makaramdam.

Creating a logical conversation is now more challenging because you consider the possible emotional impact on the person you’re talking to.

Kahit mga simpleng biro ay kailangan na rin maghinay-hinay kasi daw baka may masaktan.

Hurting your feelings now online is considered bullying compared to the physical interaction experienced by previous generations.

Nandoon na tayo na kahit dati pa ay ganito na ang nangyayari.

But not in the way that is being ignited by likes, shares, comments, subscriptions, or any other metrics the majority of the people consider as “trusted”.

Sa halip na mapalapit sa makabuluhang usapan, mas napapalayo papunta sa pagtoon ng malaking parte ng atensyon sa kung hindi ba siya nasaktan sa sinabi mo.

Sa pagsulat pa lamang nito, nakakarinig na ako agad ng pagturo sa halip na pag-ako.

Confusion arises about who will be the reliable one to talk about rational thoughts.

Marami pa lang malakas mag-drama sa paligid, sino sa kanila ang ayos sundan?

You don’t have to dismiss or filter out just by the cause of their feelings but accept that this is the reality you have.

Mapapa-isip ka rin talaga kung kailangan mong kontrolin ang nararamdaman mo palagi.

Doing so is to avoid the possible result of missing out on something beneficial.

Ang magandang tanong dito, bakit nauuna ang nararamdaman mo kaysa sa kung ano ang tingin mo tungkol sa isang bagay?

The crucial part is the awareness formation rather than the questions you want to create.

Alam mo na alam ko at alam ko na alam mo na maramdamin na ang karamihan ng tao.

Now, what should we do with this fact besides moaning while wishing that everyone would change?

Mukhang simple lang dapat ang gawin pero normal sa tao ang maging kumplikado lalo na sa usaping ito.

Given that fact, it doesn't mean that we will not work on the things we can’t control despite being part of the species having its individualistic nature.

Pwede rin natin itong makita na kalamangan dahil alam mo na nangyayari ito at pwede ka nang sumunod sa parte ng paggawa ng mga hakbang para dito.

These steps will be according to what you want to attain and ready to accept in life while knowing such consequences.

Bigyan kita ng tatlo.

This is expected from us to have such a tendency when we encounter a truth that we don’t want to accept - denial.

Sa tuwing nangyayari sa’yo ay napapaisip ka minsan na sana hindi mo na lang alam para mapanatili kung anong mayroon ka noon.

But if you think about it, is it not better to know that such a thing exists and have the chance to add your control to it?

Sa halip na wala ka talagang alam habang nasabay sa agos at kalaunan mo na lamang malalaman kung kailan huli na ang lahat.

The root of our wisdom comes from the details being exposed to our consciousness and applied in a matter of time to be second nature.

Sa kahit anong banda, hindi ka maaalis sa mga taong tatamaan ng kahihinatnan dahil sa paglaganap nito sa ating lipunan.

The truth will give you a particular level of freedom, but it doesn’t mean it will not hurt.

Tulad ng mga ginagamit nating bagay para mapadali ang isang gawain, ganoon rin ang pwede mong gawin sa tuwing may nakukuha kang kaalaman.

You know there’s a high probability that the person you’re talking to is emotional so you will take time to learn and practice how to handle it.

Masasayang lang ang oras sa kakakumbinse sa isang taong lulong sa pakiramdam niya kaya titimbangin mo ang sitwasyon kung kailangang may gawin ka o wala.

Taking advantage of someone and forming a win-win situation are different things.

H’wag mo na ipagpatuloy ang simple mong kaisipan na kung hindi puti, itim agad ang isang bagay dahil ‘yan ang madaling pamamaraan para paglaruan ang sariling damdamin.

Create an interaction where you maximize your intellectual pursuit while considering the impact of your actions on every emotional being.

Mas kasiya-siya ang pang-araw-araw mong pakikitungo sa ibang tao gamit ang ganitong pamamaraan.

There is a high chance of you wanting to explain to someone why they feel than think, you’re not their therapist so you have no obligations to do so.

Isa sa mga hindi ko malilimutang payo ng aking guro sa pisika ay “hindi mo kailangan ipagsabi sa lahat na may mamahalin kang ballpen sa bulsa mo”.

Communication is mainly for sharing thoughts between two or more people and not always a session to explain every detail you observe.

Hindi mo kontrolado lahat ng nasa paligid mo kaya mas mabuting dagdagan na lamang ang ambag sa sarili mong parte.

One’s behavior is developed for a very long time especially if used to compass the world around them.

Hintayin ang pagkakataon na mapatanong sila o magkaroon ng tapat na interes tungkol sa nararamdaman nila.

You guide them from there through leading questions rather than creating a sermon they are most likely to ignore - if that’s what you want.

It’s normal to have an emotion. Don’t be serious about it because if you do, you will feel bad for yourself later on.

Alam mo kung ano pang normal bukod dito?

It is sharing this with someone to increase their awareness.

Sana may napulot kang may kwenta dito.

Thanks for reading!

- Mark Galvez